TOSS: My New Obsession from R. Nichols

We all know this girl loves a good candle. I couldn’t help but fall over myself in glee, therefore, when one of my favorite companies came out with a new scent and design especially tied to weddings. Artfully called TOSS, this sweet candle has a girl-centered POV, with the focus on that special iconic moment when the bride tosses her wedding bouquet. I’ve always loved taking part in this fun tradition.

Right before the toss at my wedding — notice my bridesmaid Jackie poised for the moment! (She ended up splitting it with the other girl in pink).

Featuring a whimsical design with the bride hurling her buds backyard to a line of waiting single ladies, the graphic is just perfect for a coffee table, kitchen island, bedside table, or boudoir. And even though I’m already married, this is just the type of gift I would have loved to receive for my engagement party, bridal shower, or wedding. It also doubles as a sweet token the bride can give to her ‘maids.

Not only is the packaging on this piece absolutely lovely, in a white-and-black box tied with a cerulean bow, but what’s inside is a true treasure. R. Nichols candles are like little works of art, each offering up its own special graphic to draw in the eye. But perhaps even better than the pretty canister (which you can reuse, by the way) the scent of TOSS is amazing.

R. Nichols describes the scent profile on this one as “a pure and innocent bouquet of the most beautiful white flowers… White freesia are embellished with sprigs of lily of the valley, orchids and stephanotis. Hints of white peony and creamy rose petals are scattered through the fragrance for textured femininity. And notes of jasmine blushed with pink and budding red currant blossoms add a touch of soft rose color.” I couldn’t capture it better. Open this candle and with closed eyes and you’ll imagine you’re sniffing the most beautiful wedding bouquet. Speaking of beauty, it’s designed so that as your candle burns, the playful exterior design will be illuminated from within. Just lovely!

For a little something extra, invest in this charming pair of luggage tags for the bride- and groom-to-be. We might not be headed on another honeymoon anytime soon, but Josh and I plan to use these on our next couples’ trip anyway. Such a sweet gift for the couple — and one that will continue to make them smile for years to come. Candle, $32, and luggage tags, $6 each, available at R. Nichols.

Shine a Light

A lot of brides ask me for inspiration for what to give their bridesmaids as a thank-you on the big day. I have so many ideas, and I try to cater my advice to the particular bride and style of wedding. You’d be hard-pressed to find a girl who doesn’t love a little luxury, even if it’s something she’d never buy herself. In my experience, those types of gifts make the perfect ones for your most special girls. And today I’d like to share with you my latest discovery that I’m certain your bridesmaids will adore. Don’t worry, I won’t tell if you decide to order an extra for yourself! Introducing Le Feu de L’Eau.

This super-cool brand was founded by celebrity makeup artist Jo Strettell and a longtime friend (see why they’re the perfect gift of friendship?), designer Wendy Polish. Each candle is individually hand-sculpted under water for a totally unique and artistic look — no two are ever alike. These beautiful, organic candles are soy-based and come in a vibrant array of hues. Match your selections to your wedding colors or pick a different scent to match each girl’s personality.

My favorite is Le Feu Violet (The Fire of Violet), an absolutely stunning option that floods your bedroom, bathroom, entryway, or any perfect spot you choose with the scents of grapefruit and tobacco.

Here is the beautiful inspiration sheet on the candle that’s burning in my home office as we speak. To purchase, and for more color and scent inspiration, head over to Le Feu de L’Eau. $62 each.